Not that average girl. Just reading this sentence it is something which every girl wants to be able to say about herself or hear others mention when describing her.
Not that average girl. She is the kind of girl that walks through the halls and heads turn in her direction. She wears every extraordinary outfit with a sassy smile. She does not care what anybody says about her. Therefore, she does what she considers as the right thing to do and does not rely on anybody else’s opinion. No matter which situation she knows a tough answer. Everything she does seems to be done with no effort. But what is easy to forget when seeing her day to day even looking good while failing that she struggles as well as everyone else does.
Why I am sure it is that way?
Well, that’s an easy one.
Who sees her when the light goes out? Because when you take a closer look to the people around you, you will realize that everybody is struggling with something and – as Nicholas Sparks has written it – to them it is just as hard as what you are going through.
But let me tell you there is something which makes a difference. Be grateful for the small things. It may sounds bizarre and I am sure the first thing which comes to your mind is a post card with a pastel font which you can find in one of these girly shops. First things first, you will realize that it is not that easy to always be grateful when you are in a bad place. It requires discipline to always remind yourself to remember all the things which make your life worth living. Nonetheless, believe me it is true that it is the small things which matter. The beautiful sunrise on your last holiday. Coming home to your mom surprising you with a crazy amount of your favourite snack. The feeling after an intense workout. Laughing with your friends till it hurts.
To know what really matters is the key to not care about what anybody else thinks. Because you know they can’t take away what defines you: the small things. This is the knowledge these girls who seem to be so happy in every situation you see them carry. They struggle as well but they don’t let their struggles decide who they are.

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